So this is just a teeny, tiny, partial de-rail, but I'd like to ask a general question of the more seasoned Captains out there, since I'm a pretty inexperienced FO.
I like to hand-fly. And I would hand-fly more, but I've gotten a very distinct impression from a number of my Captains that:
1) It makes more work for them and they really don't like it.
2) A lot of them seem to think that turning off the automation means I don't know how to use it.
So when I get those vibes I tend to go the way I'm perceiving that the CA wants, despite my preference to do otherwise. In the case of Item 2, I don't really press the issue, I just kinda say "okay." That's passive. I know that's not always a good thing in an FO. I'm still learning how to do this job.
Common sense says that on a heavy IMC day, especially toward the end of a trip when everyone's tired, using a little more automation makes sense.
But what's the etiquette here when things are pretty nice and calm and clear and there's no reason not to other than....the other pilot doesn't really *want* you to....?