I think i'll add a little to this dead horse and try to bridge the gap a bit more - just cuz i wasn't watching what was going on here fast enough and i want my 0.02 cents heard!
i know it's more of a moot point - but i feel better after reading the thread and writing some from the "family" point of view...altho i'm sure it's not wanted nor needed...
i saw this quote and it kinda lit my fire a tad... goes a little something like this *to the theme of the beverly hillbillies*...
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As for airline pilots spending most of the holidays and birthdays away from home- well i can understand that but it does not justify the pay
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Are you kidding me? it totally justifies the pay... i've been up and down the ropes in this business from flight instruction on up - but as an outsider looking in and watching how the aviation business works and finding out how to survive day by day and how to keep myself and my pilot sane throughout the career...
you try being gone for 4 day,then home for 4 days - week after week... being away from family members, family emergencies, your kids birthdays or what not... pilots are away from their kids so long that the first thing their boys or girls learn is "when is daddy coming home?".... you don't get to watch their first crawl or walk.. most of the time, your running a single parent household...and i'm not even a mom yet - but i know what the other mothers go through... we talk
the schedules suck as your building your career - your lucky if your woman doesn't leave you because you can't plan ANYTHING! heck, i didn't know if doug would even be at our wedding until 2 weeks prior...and that was only earlier this year - 5 years after he's been in the major airline biz...
the schedules still suck - i work full time because uncle sam has to take nearly half of everything we both work for...he has to pay ALPA dues, strike fund dues, furlough dues and whatever else is left is ours to pay the mortgage with...
he hasn't had weekends off for over 2 months now... we haven't even gone a honeymoon cuz we can't plan it ahead of time (yeah, i'm sure there are ways around this but i dont want jamaica!)... you tell me again - that those who get to go home, to a home cooked meal and a nice cozy bed are underpaid? they're paid alright - only not in money but in "life"... those folks that get to go home every night get to live more - be free more, spend more time together.. they're not chained to a bowling ball called "airline schedule" - where the airline, if they so choose, can reroute you and send you from a 4 day trip to a 5 day and you can do absolutely nothing about it but call your wife and say "it'll be one more day *sigh*"...
dispatchers, ramp agents, mechanics and all of the "on the scene" airline personnel get to go home EVERY NIGHT.. and they probably get a few days off, a lunch break, smoke break or gab break during the week ta boot... granted, i do agree that they (dispatchers, ramp agents etc) should be paid what they're worth and that they might not be getting their just do for the importance in their jobs (depending on what job it is and it's qualifications) - but i totally and completely disagree with your statement...
I'm not saying that our life is harder than anyone elses... not at all... but we do have more to contend with than working 8-5 and coming home...heck, i work 7-4 and rearrange my schedule a lot of the time just to fit his so we can spend a few quality hours together. i get paid only a fraction of what he gets paid and i have a 4 year (6 year really) engineering degree - my coworkers constantly say "if your in engineering- it's not for the money"... but i realize i get to come home at night and make myself some dinner, play with the kitties and he doesn't... so for me, his pay is totally justified in my eyes..
not to long ago we went on a long 4 day weekend trip and it was grueling when we got back.. it took me an entire week to recoup the time difference and from that point on, i now totally understand the ramp up/ramp down situation pilots go through when they're gone for 4, home for 4 and on and on...whew - i sure as heck couldn't do it as a livelyhood!!
did i vent good enough
i'm not a complainer by any means (yeah, i know this doesn't quite show that)... but once in a while, a woman's gotta let loose!!
that's really my spin - from the other half of the airline family plate!
now - we can kill this thread! hahaha it's not over till the website wife sings!
i know it's more of a moot point - but i feel better after reading the thread and writing some from the "family" point of view...altho i'm sure it's not wanted nor needed...
i saw this quote and it kinda lit my fire a tad... goes a little something like this *to the theme of the beverly hillbillies*...
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As for airline pilots spending most of the holidays and birthdays away from home- well i can understand that but it does not justify the pay
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Are you kidding me? it totally justifies the pay... i've been up and down the ropes in this business from flight instruction on up - but as an outsider looking in and watching how the aviation business works and finding out how to survive day by day and how to keep myself and my pilot sane throughout the career...
you try being gone for 4 day,then home for 4 days - week after week... being away from family members, family emergencies, your kids birthdays or what not... pilots are away from their kids so long that the first thing their boys or girls learn is "when is daddy coming home?".... you don't get to watch their first crawl or walk.. most of the time, your running a single parent household...and i'm not even a mom yet - but i know what the other mothers go through... we talk
the schedules suck as your building your career - your lucky if your woman doesn't leave you because you can't plan ANYTHING! heck, i didn't know if doug would even be at our wedding until 2 weeks prior...and that was only earlier this year - 5 years after he's been in the major airline biz...
the schedules still suck - i work full time because uncle sam has to take nearly half of everything we both work for...he has to pay ALPA dues, strike fund dues, furlough dues and whatever else is left is ours to pay the mortgage with...
he hasn't had weekends off for over 2 months now... we haven't even gone a honeymoon cuz we can't plan it ahead of time (yeah, i'm sure there are ways around this but i dont want jamaica!)... you tell me again - that those who get to go home, to a home cooked meal and a nice cozy bed are underpaid? they're paid alright - only not in money but in "life"... those folks that get to go home every night get to live more - be free more, spend more time together.. they're not chained to a bowling ball called "airline schedule" - where the airline, if they so choose, can reroute you and send you from a 4 day trip to a 5 day and you can do absolutely nothing about it but call your wife and say "it'll be one more day *sigh*"...
dispatchers, ramp agents, mechanics and all of the "on the scene" airline personnel get to go home EVERY NIGHT.. and they probably get a few days off, a lunch break, smoke break or gab break during the week ta boot... granted, i do agree that they (dispatchers, ramp agents etc) should be paid what they're worth and that they might not be getting their just do for the importance in their jobs (depending on what job it is and it's qualifications) - but i totally and completely disagree with your statement...
I'm not saying that our life is harder than anyone elses... not at all... but we do have more to contend with than working 8-5 and coming home...heck, i work 7-4 and rearrange my schedule a lot of the time just to fit his so we can spend a few quality hours together. i get paid only a fraction of what he gets paid and i have a 4 year (6 year really) engineering degree - my coworkers constantly say "if your in engineering- it's not for the money"... but i realize i get to come home at night and make myself some dinner, play with the kitties and he doesn't... so for me, his pay is totally justified in my eyes..
not to long ago we went on a long 4 day weekend trip and it was grueling when we got back.. it took me an entire week to recoup the time difference and from that point on, i now totally understand the ramp up/ramp down situation pilots go through when they're gone for 4, home for 4 and on and on...whew - i sure as heck couldn't do it as a livelyhood!!
did i vent good enough
that's really my spin - from the other half of the airline family plate!
now - we can kill this thread! hahaha it's not over till the website wife sings!