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@Brandon K. and all the rest who are contemplating an accelerated program: unless you legitimately fall into the intellectually gifted category, prepare yourself and your family for six months of very high workload and almost zero quality family time. You will need to be out of the house a lot; flying, studying alone or in study groups, doing practice orals and chair flying. Your wife will be a single parent. Get her accustomed to the idea now, or your stress level will be through the roof. [Reality check here - regardless of profession, all couples experience this at times during a person's career, so get her to accept this fact. If she insists that you need to be home every night to spend time with her and the kiddies you need to abandon your aspirations of flying (and most other careers short of being a bag boy at Krogers) for a living].
After you start instructing the intensity changes. You won't be doing quite so much studying, but you will be spending a lot of time outside the house flying or attending to program-related responsibilities. Don't forget, you will need to do plenty of night instruction, so there will be early mornings and late evenings. Mom is going to continue to be frustrated and exasperated, and there will be lots of marital stress and feelings of guilt, but it won't be quite as bad as those first six months.
Make no mistake about it, the accelerated programs are very demanding. Much more than high school and most university programs. If you thought you were going balls out back then, you may feel overwhelmed. Take solace in the fact that many people have been down the same path, and have been successful. Have your wife speak with the spouses of guys who are just about to leave ATP so she can begin preparing herself. Develop contingency plans for dealing with life's problems that crop up when you're three states away doing your time building flights. You can be certain that your wife will get sick, the car will break down, one of the kids will need to go to the hospital, or the bank will bounce a big check while you're gone, so have fallback plans in place.
Do all the advance work and then go have a great time becoming a top notch pilot and instructor. The feeling of accomplishment is fantastic.