Why? Because I know pilots who sat on the panel for 15 years when they were told they would be a captain in 4 years? Because I knew people who bled Pan Am Blue watch it go down in flames (one literally wrote a book on Pan Am)? Because I know many who assumed they would be at a major in five years but are at a regional 25 years later? Pilots who hopped from ACA to Comair to another regional? Pilots who were furloughed for years? So a person was a regional FO for 8 years. It happens.
Listen. I understand the industry has it's ups and downs. I've worked with Pan Am guys, Eastern guys, Braniff guys, ATA guys, TWA guys, Comair guys, the lot. There were plenty of them who were bitter, and plenty that were of the "Meh, it happens" crowd.
Having not walked a mile in their shoes, I sure as hell wouldn't disparage any of them for being bitter.
It can be a tough industry and I think many of those who are bitter came in with unrealistic expectations. I'm not sure what the disconnect is, but there seems to be an entitlement attitude, that they are owed a quick upgrade and a double breasted suit after five years. Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't.
And there it is. "Entitlement".
That is the most oft given excuse given by those of a previous generation to explain the younger generation. Is there some entitlement attitude out there? Absolutely. I've seen it. But can't you understand why there is some malcontent when you have people that were
told that they have found the road to their goal, only to have it snatched away for a multitude of different reasons? That's a tough pill to swallow, even if those before you have likely swallowed the same pill in the past.
I've seen bad luck events turn out to be the best thing, then I've seen the "lucky" ones get hosed. Heck, I saw guys in my new hire class here get on with DAL before me because of the airplane they selected. Unfortunately they were hired in August 2001. Fortunately, however, they were the first to be furloughed and flying jobs were still available.
I think I have always been up front and truthful with people who ask about this industry. It can be great. But timing is everything. You can let the events shape you and turn you into a bitter person, or you can roll with it. Personally, I try not to let the actions of others define who I am.
In the words of the famous pilot Buckaroo Banzai, "No matter where you go, there you are."
I'll agree with you there. Timing
is everything. But for every person who gets on at the beginning of the wave, there is someone who gets on at the end. And to tell someone who got on at the end that they should just be happy that they are there, is nothing more than condescension at it's highest level.
Look, I don't enjoy flying with someone who is negative 100% of the time as much as the next guy. But if someone who has truly gotten a screw job, and is having a bad day, I'll happily listen, offer advice if I can, and buy the first beverage at the overnight to hydrate the sorrow. Not tell them that they should be happy to have a job while I'm earning nearly twice their salary and sitting in the seat they're yearning to fly from.