Message boards seem to have dominant groups. On APC, FedEx and UPS are the two dominant groups. Here at JC, Colgan is represented by many members who are delightful and make the place more fun. I think that is why this is particularly bad for people here - even if the crew weren't JC users, they are known and liked by our JC users so it is more personal and the loss is causing our Colgan friends pain. Also, I saw the Colgan thing, before the post that said "no JC members" and I was really kind of queesy - that is another reason this hits hard - going from the feeling of dread, to the joy that your friends weren't killed, to the immediate feelings of guilt because you were happy it wasn't your friends.