1. I haven't looked up FRG on a sectional yet, but from just listening, I don't think that this was Class B OR Class C airspace. I can only imagine somewhere like ORD or MDW granting a Cessna touch and goes between 737s.
2. The pilot of 77F should have already known the answer to his question assuming he was still on the runway he landed on. He was never given a "Land and hold short of..." instruction by the ATC.
3. Seems to me that the controller waited WAY too long to give the go-around instruction to the Cessna. By the time he did, he sounded like he was in a dire emergency situation. The Cessna should also have made the decision as PIC and just told ATC he was doing a go around.
But I do agree with the controller and his "I'm giving you a phone number" decision. 77F said that he could read ATC loud and clear, but was not responding at all to ATC's questions or instructions. By the end of that whole transcript, I too was thinking that 77F was going to get a phone number to call.
My airport also has a couple of controllers whose patience is less than stellar, but you just deal with them and follow their instructions to the best of your ability. I would also offer up the opinion that just because you're in controlled airspace, that does NOT make it easier or reduce your workload. Often times, it increases it. Nearly every time I've gone up to do pattern work around DPA, I'll do landings on one runway for a couple of times, and then get shifted over to another runway because either the wind shifts or because of traffic conditions. When that happens, the workload definitely increases as I reposition myself into the traffic pattern of another runway. There have also been times when I'm downright surprised I didn't get told I would get a number to call. A week ago, I was told to make right traffic, and I ended up making left traffic. WHOOPS! Fortunately, my mistake only hurt my pride, but that was definitely not one of my finer days working with ATC. It happens.
It just definitely seems to me that there were all sorts of things that could have kept this situation from getting to the point it did, on 77F's part, on the controller's part, and on the Cessna's part. Glad it just didn't end in tragedy and a REAL dire emergency.