So, let me just make sure I understand you correctly.
You're willing to take something like a 63% pay cut, from $232 to $85, just to drive to work.
That's going from $17,400 a month to $6,375 per month.
If you spent $300 a week buying tickets for your commute, you'd STILL be coming out ahead by around $9,000 a month.
I'm not saying it's ideal, not by a long shot, but if I told my wife I was going to take that kind of a pay cut because I was angry about watching movies for 12 hours a week, she'd divorce me, because it would be clear she had married a fool.