We definitely have some real weirdos in this industry that struggle with basic communications.
My last trip as an FO (so like 18 months ago), I was paired with a captain that I’d never met before. From the first minute, he just wouldn’t shut up about face masks and vaccines.
I politely told him I do not want to talk about any of that stuff, and can we please just talk about something else? He continued on about it, and I asked him again to please stop as I don’t agree with any of his comments.
He then said “I’m the captain, we will talk about whatever I want!” Fortunately we were still on the shuttle to the aircraft, and I responded with “Ok, that’s not how this works. I am going to call the duty officer and get off this trip since that’s how you feel”.
He was real quiet for a few minutes, and apparently he started thinking about the consequences of his behavior. He apologized and was very respectful the rest of the trip.
But still, that is just such a crazy situation and I couldn’t believe it happened. I don’t know how some of these guys get to be this way, but I sure hope it never happens to me. I just can’t even imagine how terrible I would feel if a flight crew (or anyone else for that matter!) told me that I was offending with my discussion and to please stop.