I second this! It's absurd to me that a thread that started out as a question to fellow dispatchers turned into some attacking others. This is a great resource to learn from each other - the blatant disrespect needs to stop.
Now this thread originally posed a question about whether to add an alternate with a CAVOK forecast. Would I plan one if there were no other factors that would deem it prudent or necessary to do so? No.
Then it seemed to become a discussion on the power struggle between Pilot and Dispatcher and bruised egos. This is where it gets ridiculous to me. It's not supposed to be a power struggle. It's not supposed to be them against us and vice versa. There is a reason for joint authority and we should all respect that instead of letting egos get in the way. We are all professionals - act like it!
If there really are no other factors and adding an alternate is not required, the end result of costing more to carry one, causing a delay, bumping payload, adding to the workload, etc...is ridiculous. I feel that having a quick convo with the pilot, letting them know the wx is good all around, multiple approaches are available, winds are favorable, etc... can usually assure them from whatever it is that is concerning them. Or like I said before, hearing them out to make sure I didn't screw up or that there isn't something I'm not aware of. It doesn't take but a minute or two of your life to have a convo and make sure everyone is on the same page and comfortable, with a safe and legal flight plan. And usually in the end, that's all it takes to get them on their way. With some, maybe a little extra gas if they were planned skinny already. If, on the other hand, they still want an alternate, fine. I did my job. It's on a recorded line. I'd advise the reason for the delay, etc to my lead/sup and move on to the next.