///AMG
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Eh, I think we've just diluted the term too much. The average "influencer" is pretty much normal, just with a little extra shade of narcissism. The idea of being "neurodivergent" is just one of many social contagions currently spreading around on social media. "Trauma" is another. Everyone and their brother is claiming to be suffering from immense amounts of trauma. But when you drill down, it's really just typical life experiences. People just love to be seen as oppressed, traumatized, victimized, etc. Apparently being normal doesn't get enough "likes and subscribes."
So we were at a wedding last summer for one of my friends. Night before, a bunch of us all met up at a nearby brewery and were all catching up around the campfire. Turned out my buddy's college ex (who was also there), who I hadn't seen in probably 10-15 years, had been an Instagram influencer with like a million followers, but got fed up with it and stopped. I was super surprised. She wasn't that kind of person before, and isn't now. Maybe she was for a while? She was about the last person I'd have imagined becoming an "influencer". I don't even know what she influenced......candles and incense? Knitting ironic hats and scarves? The Real Lives of Portlandia? I think I asked, but I was too surprised by the fact that we were talking about this at all, to really focus on what she said. It's like in those movies where a person's mouth is moving but all you hear is being underwater