I try not to rain on anyone's dreams here and sometimes I find myself biting my tongue as I read some of the naive post from those who believe their career will happen exactly as they've planned it and on a certain time schedule with very little leeway for unforecast disappointments.
I have been, like many here, that same starry-eyed kid with big dreams of flying the heavy iron all around the world and the perceived "perks" that go along with it. I'm one of the very lucky ones here who have achieved every aviation goal I set out to accomplish since I was only 7 years old. Many of my dreams as a kid were based on fantasies rather than realities. Doesn't matter though, they were real to me.
As I grew older and understood a little more, I heard many of the same negatives associated with becoming an airline pilot as many of you hear today. Airline names and people have changed over the years but many of the same problems remain within the industry and probably always will. The young have a way of blocking out negatives or obstacles or fears that come with age and experience. I was certainly guilty of that and it helped me persevere through the tough times while I was pursuing my career. I'm not 10 feet tall and bullet-proof anymore like I was 20 years ago.
One of the things I discovered was that there are a lot of good people who don't make it in aviation through no fault of their own. It's just bad luck or timing. I think about how incredibly lucky and blessed I've been and how just a slight change of timing or luck may have completely changed the outcome of my career. I've always believed that good preparation can influence one's luck. However, bad luck can destroy good preparation. I can't emphasize enough the importance of good olé fashion luck and timing when it comes to a career in aviation.
As lucky as I've been in aviation and to be sitting where I'm at, there are times when the thought of packing another bag and leaving my family for the ump-teenth time on another trip is enough to make anyone rethink their career choice. The thought of yet another 6 month recurrent training event, 6 month 1st class physical, FAA or company line check, TSA hassles, upcoming contract negotiations or simply missing an important family function and seeing the hurt in my little girl's eyes takes that glowing shine off the aviation apple. 35,000ft at 3am and 1000 miles from home on Xmas or your daughter's birthday is a miserable experience. It's certainly not the worst thing in the world..it just feels like it at the time.
I can hear the young folks now... "If you can't handle, or don't like the job, then leave! I'll be more than happy to take your place". You know what, I use to say the same thing when I was first starting out. All I thought about was this fantasy world in my head about flying airplanes..big ones! Elvis Presley once said, "Fantasy and reality are two different things and it's very hard to live up to the fantasy".
It's not that I don't enjoy flying airplanes anymore because I do. I enjoy trying to perfect something you can never truly perfect no matter how much you practice. It's like playing golf. I enjoy being good at something not a lot of people do. The problem is that the everyday pressures and distractions that surround the job sometimes begin to cloud the reason you got into this profession in the first place. And you will never truly understand what those pressures and distractions are until you've spent some time in the industry. They just don't exist when you're a young aspiring student pilot just beginning your flight training with dreams of an airline or professional pilot career. I didn't understand them then, nor did I care. I do now and I suspect that UA Capt did to.
Having said all that, I can't think of anything else I'd rather being doing as a career other than what I'm doing. Strange, huh? It's just that it's not the pure bed of roses I had envisioned or fantasized about as a kid, but then again, every career choice has it's hidden thorns. What you have to decide is do you make yourself and everyone around you miserable by concentrating on the thorns (negatives) following your dream or do you find the positives in this career by concentrating on the roses? (positives).