There are definitely some world-weary, even curmudgeonly pilots out there.
When I was working at an FBO, I was walking in one day to the lobby with my Gleim PPL book. A kind of haggard looking guy was hunched over his newspaper, glanced up, and said, "Oh God, not another one."
A bit caught off guard, I said, "I'm sorry?"
"Kid, you don't know what you're gettin' into. Be a lawyer. Be a doctor.
Anything but aviation." He was, of course, assuming I wanted to become a professional pilot. Which was true, but he didn't know me from Adam.
"You're a pilot, sir?" I asked as respectfully as I could.
"Flyin' that 604 out on the ramp. 18,000 hours." He went on to explain the horrendous lifesytle of a corporate pilot, always away from home, not making jack, he was sick and tired of flying around the states, he knew it inside and out like the back of his hand so now he can't even travel anywhere and have a decent vacation without going abroad and its the worst job in the world and now he wants to start up a winery and get outta this s***ty business and trust me flying becomes just like any other job after the first week of doing it professionally and a s**t job at that.
Thanks a lot, buddy, I thought. I'm not naive to the state of the industry, but I am hopeful. Sure doesn't help to have Scrooges like that to pull you down.
When I'm an airline captain--not if--I intend to be encouraging to younger up-and-comers (like myself right now). I'll lay out in truthful terms what it's like, that it's a tough industry to get into, can be a tough one to stay in, you've gotta pay your dues, but if you really want to do it: go for it!
This was just one guy. Other pilots I've spoken with, most even, have been fantastic and encouraging, while not sugar-coating the reality.
Anyway, he coulda just been having a bad day.
I look it as a learning experience. He had some legitimate points, just a bad attitude.