But you be the judge, if you really think I hate women because of that comment, I won't convince you otherwise.
I'm only judging the comment, not the commenter. The way it read to me may not have been the way it was intended, but I don't honestly know what your views are on the issue, and like I said, I've seen a surprising amount of fairly non-funny comments here from various sources.
To be honest, I keep trying to re-read your statement with the thought that it's meta-humor, and it still doesn't parse for me however hard I try ... it reminds me of growing up in the south, when somebody from the northeast would be there on vacation and they'd make some horribly racist joke that left everyone shocked. To them, it was just humor, but to us it felt like they were making a play on something that they felt was a shared belief, and that was the worst part.
I don't think it's an issue of "hating women" by any stretch of the imagination ... but my opinion is that to single out that part for comment does advance the
perception that we, as a group, feel that women pilots are inherently sub-standard, and that's what I really took issue with. Like I said, it wasn't my intent to be a prick. It's possible that I completely missed the intent of the joke, but I can't see it.
Remind me not to share clips of my stand-up tour on this board. Sheesh, all the crap I've said here over the years and this sets everyone off? Really?
I'm relatively new here, overall, and I don't participate nearly so much in the daily banter, so if I seemed to have misjudged your character please don't take it personally. Without the context that I clearly lack, it comes off as tasteless, sexist 'humor'.
As far as comedic effect, though, to me there's a difference between open humor and closed humor, and generally speaking your comment appeared to me to be the exposed tip of a very large iceberg of perception.
That's all I'll say about that, you guys(or girls, sorry, don't shoot me)carry on.
I'm sorry myself for the thread derail. I wasn't trying to jump in and be judgmental, but I do feel better having said something, regardless.
~Fox