Bigey
Well-Known Member
This is the only post you should read. As a father, your children come first.
Go to your local community college and enroll in something you have an interest in. It is not as much as ATP, the loans are fixed rate, the interest is lower, there are grants available and as a father of two you will receive ample aid.
A college degree is a much better option when it comes to keeping food on the table and a roof over your family's heads. When you are in a better position, then worry about flying. The degree will still be useful as it will set you ahead of other applicants without one.
Its not about what is enjoyable to you at this point, its about providing for your family as best you can. Taking 60k out and 6 months off work to learn to fly should not even enter your mind as an option.
This x1000000000!
Keep in mind, NO ONE here is telling you to throw your dreams away. We're just saying to push them back for now and focus on what's important (i.e. your family) right now. Go spend 1/8 of what you would at ATP at a community college and learn a trade! Comm. colleges are great for this! Think of electrician or HVAC or anything that has a technical aspect. Start getting money flowing in for you and your family before you start thinking of spending money. Remember, you're a dad now, it's you and your fiances responsibility to care for them.
I'm 20 also and have found myself starting my own business. I dont have much experience and it took me going to a community college to realize that I love the entrepreneur side of things. Also, a lot of JC's have job placement help. They can get you in jobs that pay a little more than min wage. And the tuition is relatively cheap!