Can't there be a private session for this chatter. It is really old having to skim through the posts trying to weed out the crap about the Husbands and BF business. The purpose is to gain and share information. A lot can be figured out by reading and not just starting new posts about the same information that can be found two pages away. Learn how to use the search feature. If you want to be of assistance to your significant other, fabulous for you and them. I personally am reaching the point that I don't even want to meet him because I know you will be there to do all the talking for him. Silence is golden my friends.
BTW, there are 12 step programs for the controlling, overbearing and bitchy girlfriend problems you seem to indulge in. Oh and let's not forget the whiny pity me party that you pull every time someone gets aggravated with your posts. Take the hint. It's old!
Step 1. admitting you are POWERLESS and your life has become unmanageable.