And it ain't harassment if you like it.
As for the question, is there hanky panky going on?
Uh, duh, it's a workplace.
Combine available men and available women and sometimes, there's a little spark. And sometimes, people take that spark and run with it.
That's going to happen in any workplace.
Exactly! I had a similar conversation yesterday. I was having breakfast yesterday morning at my hotel, and sitting next to me was a female FO for Air Tran, who was a former flight attendant before she became a pilot. Because the service was incredibly slow, we started chatting about all kinds of things. The Blue Angels were eating at the table next to us, so of course we started talking about studmuffins, and then segued somehow into pilot/FA one-nighters.
She had just ended an 11-year relationship with another pilot, and no, he wasn't cheating with another FA. He was cheating with their friend, right in their hometown. The female pilot and I agreed that probably 'back in the day" more of that pilot/FA hanky-panky occurred than it does now. BTW guys, she was gorgeous and smart, (as well as available).

Nice gal too. I enjoyed chatting with her.
As per the young man's question. I'm sure that pilots/FA's do "hook up", but probably not as frequently as many think. Many of them are just too tired on their overnights, some are afraid of "dipping their pen in the company ink" because if it doesn't work out, it can make a pilot's life really nasty.
(Velo, what was that you were telling me about Visine in the coffee?)
People can hook up anywhere, at any work place. When I travel for work to business conferences, etc., I have way more opportunities to hook up with my fellow business travelers, or a colleague, than I do pilots. Almost ALL business conferences have dinners (with lots of alcohol) that you must attend. Combine those two together and you can have all kinds of hanky-panky if you want that!