I was a crew scheduler, my first airline job.
I'm an optimist as well, but I have no illusions about how an employer should or will treat me. They need a service done, I perform the service in exchange for payment. It's really no different than when you go buy a Big Mac at McDonald's. You're the customer, you want your needs satisfied. It's the same thing with working. Your employer is the customer. They expect satisfaction for their money. It's up to you to provide it.
I don't expect my employer to "take care of me." It's my job to take care of myself. I do that by recognizing that my well being, as guaranteed by my job and salary, requires me to take care of my employer. Therefore I always strive to do the best job I can. I guess my attitude is, while I recognize that what's good for my employer may not necessarily be good for me, what is bad for my employer IS ultimately going to be bad for me.
Outside of that, all I expect of any employer, or anyone, is that they treat me with the respect and courtesy that one human being owes another. Gratitude? I'd rather have the paycheck. I'll fulfill Maslow's need of love and acceptance in other ways thank you very much.
My opinion? Put these notions aside and place responsibility for your happiness and well being on your own shoulders, where it belongs. You will live a much better and more satisfying life.
You mean like for a 25 year pilot group to be paid fairly?????
Unlike your crew scheduling job. For us, this is not just a job. It's a career. We don't just collect the checks like you might expect at a McDonalds or some place where you "punch out" where you don't expect anything other than a check. People plan their long term lives on what TSA has to provide and if you're going to do that you obviously will need more from your comapny. You are confusing the services of a screw scheduler with the services of a pilot, which do not compare at all. Crew scheduler equals to a job. Pilot, equals to a career, it's worth more.