And of course QOL gets super awesome the longer you plod along at this thing, as you have for many decades. I'm speaking more to the crowd of my peers who have been here for maybe a year, two, three, five, and while life is really good, it isn't always as amazing as it may be construed as. Trying to juggle the military reserves and this job is a serious headache for me, as an example. Nothing to do with my employer, they have been nothing short of awesome in that department, I just try to take on too much perpetually, so it is a "me" problem for sure. Which some people will take issue with because the system is literally designed to make this easy. It just isn't. Two jobs never is. But on topic, first few years at a major, especially my chosen one (or is it a legacy? or a big regional? ) can suck at times. I think it is ok to acknowledge that realistically, and still highlight the great things. But I know the reality has been different enough from the fake takes for a few of my friends to send them packing for other lines of work. That's my beef......if those guys had gotten honest information, they probably wouldn't have wasted their time (and money for the ATP) in the process
Anecdotally, people who are prone to post their opinion in forums (related to any topic) tend to be from two groups:
1. Those who post to justify their own decisions (they may see the downside, but want to bury those to make themselves feel ok).
2. Those who post to highlight their ability to pinpoint problems and issues (they may see the upsides, but that doesn’t give them the same dopamine hit).
The (presumed) majority aren’t often emotionally vested enough in either position (or the more prevalent middle ground) to expend the effort to compose and post, nor subsequently defend, their viewpoint.
[Disclaimer: I said “anecdotally”. No actual research has been included in this post. ]