I think the ones who treat you like you are still in flight school are funny. I have yet to fly with one that does that and doesn't screw something up and causes me to fix it. I find that so gratifying. If you build yourself up as the best then there is only one way to go...and I enjoy seeing that happen.
I don't think I have ever been abused per se but I have had plenty that love to be captain America and fight with everyone. I choose to let them do there thing and stay out of their way. I had one that flew off the handle because the dispatcher gave us a no need alternate and with the fuel load, we couldn't get everyone on. Well the fueler already fueled us and he lost it. "back in the day, they used to ask the CAPTAIN before fueling the aircraft!!!!". He went on and yelled at tw fueler, gate agent, an dispatcher. If I would have told him he was stupid and didn't know what he was talking about, he would have turned his rage on me. I just agreed with him and went back to my lunch. Remember, it is all about ME. I chose to eat my lunch instead of engage his shenanigans.