sbe
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Well, here I am a mere couple of weeks from my commercial checkride. I'm convinced I'm having a quarterlife crisis right now.
Flying is everything I imagined it would be and so much more - I'm absolutely addicted to it and live for every time I get to step into an airplane and go fly.
I'm at the point where I'll be doing my CFI/II, then I'll go back and pick up the CMEL and MEI.
Part of me wants to go whole hog after the flying thing all the way to a full time career. I know I'll love it, the biggest thing I'm facing is the initial huge salary cut. I don't make a ton of money right now; but it's a heck of a lot more than I will be. I'm 30 years old, and sometimes have a hard enough time watching my engineer coworkers the same age as myself buying nice houses and SUVs, and I'm renting, driving a beater of a car, and generally making all kinds of sacrifices to do this. I sit and think "shouldn't I be settling down and trying to create financial stability for myself, buying a house..." My boyfriend of three and a half years is very supportive of me (it doesn't hurt that he works for an airline), no matter what I choose...though we talk about marriage we've decided to at the absolute least wait until I'm done with flight training.
As some of you know, I train horses on the side of my full time job to pay for flying. I have two horses in full time training (ridden 5x a week) and one in part time training (ridden 2x a week and a lesson for the owner on Sundays). It's worked well so far, I've paid cash for all of my flying to date. I get two nights a week completely off, and my weekends are *mostly* free as I usually get up really early to work the horses and get it over with. One of my clients has been trying to get me to take a stallion in training; this would be another full time horse. My nights off probably won't be affected, I can anticipate 5 more hours per week (1 hour each time I ride) - the 3 weeknights I do ride I'll be home close to 10pm.
If I take this horse on, the combined training fees will easily cover me for any flight training I have left - CMEL, CFI/II/MEI. Once I get through training, I will whittle the horse stuff down to next to nothing to teach part time (I can't bring myself to quit my day job).
I'm really struggling with whether I can physically handle this. These past few weeks I've been dropping weight from all the physical work and I'm not really trying to diet - not a bad thing, but I've never had this happen before, and when I drop 4 pounds in a weekend it is a bit unnerving. I come home exhausted and have little time for things beyond studying, with the exception of those two weeknights off. It boils down to...how bad do I want this? And that is what I'm trying to put a finger on. Do I want to go after this as a future career and really pour my heart and soul into making the money to pay for it, even with the long hours with the horses? Or am I happy to have a decent paying job, and to do CFI work on the side for enjoyment (I LOVE to teach riding, I can't imagine flying will be any different), along with the corporate gig I have coming up as a possibility starting later this year (that will possibly combine with an office position to create a full time position)?
Decisions. Only I can make them, and I wish I knew what I wanted.
My heart is telling me to take the extra horse into training. My mind is saying "no wait...." Stay tuned, I've got a lot of soul-searching to do in the coming days.
Sarah
I'm at the point where I'll be doing my CFI/II, then I'll go back and pick up the CMEL and MEI.
Part of me wants to go whole hog after the flying thing all the way to a full time career. I know I'll love it, the biggest thing I'm facing is the initial huge salary cut. I don't make a ton of money right now; but it's a heck of a lot more than I will be. I'm 30 years old, and sometimes have a hard enough time watching my engineer coworkers the same age as myself buying nice houses and SUVs, and I'm renting, driving a beater of a car, and generally making all kinds of sacrifices to do this. I sit and think "shouldn't I be settling down and trying to create financial stability for myself, buying a house..." My boyfriend of three and a half years is very supportive of me (it doesn't hurt that he works for an airline), no matter what I choose...though we talk about marriage we've decided to at the absolute least wait until I'm done with flight training.
As some of you know, I train horses on the side of my full time job to pay for flying. I have two horses in full time training (ridden 5x a week) and one in part time training (ridden 2x a week and a lesson for the owner on Sundays). It's worked well so far, I've paid cash for all of my flying to date. I get two nights a week completely off, and my weekends are *mostly* free as I usually get up really early to work the horses and get it over with. One of my clients has been trying to get me to take a stallion in training; this would be another full time horse. My nights off probably won't be affected, I can anticipate 5 more hours per week (1 hour each time I ride) - the 3 weeknights I do ride I'll be home close to 10pm.
If I take this horse on, the combined training fees will easily cover me for any flight training I have left - CMEL, CFI/II/MEI. Once I get through training, I will whittle the horse stuff down to next to nothing to teach part time (I can't bring myself to quit my day job).
I'm really struggling with whether I can physically handle this. These past few weeks I've been dropping weight from all the physical work and I'm not really trying to diet - not a bad thing, but I've never had this happen before, and when I drop 4 pounds in a weekend it is a bit unnerving. I come home exhausted and have little time for things beyond studying, with the exception of those two weeknights off. It boils down to...how bad do I want this? And that is what I'm trying to put a finger on. Do I want to go after this as a future career and really pour my heart and soul into making the money to pay for it, even with the long hours with the horses? Or am I happy to have a decent paying job, and to do CFI work on the side for enjoyment (I LOVE to teach riding, I can't imagine flying will be any different), along with the corporate gig I have coming up as a possibility starting later this year (that will possibly combine with an office position to create a full time position)?
Decisions. Only I can make them, and I wish I knew what I wanted.
Sarah