I agree with that after you mentioned that one little word...ATTITUDE. That is everything. Attitude doesn't change with clothes unless you are flat broke and happy to finally be in some nice clothes, or a nice haircut
Attitude is everything, however the same attitude that may work in one place, may not work in another.....it depends on the "fit" they're looking for, IMHO.
For instance me. In the early-mid '90s, I was flying 135 cargo on my way to the standard 121 route.......was planning on getting on with Eagle and going from there. Even if that didn't pan out, I had about 3 other forks in the road I could take aviation-wise that just take me to different places in career life.
Was enlisted in the ANG to supplement my income some, and had decided to put in the paperwork for AF OTS for a pilot slot. Being post-Desert Storm, the AF was opening OTS again after it'd been closed for a couple of years during the post Cold War drawdown. I went to interview with a group of AF officers, and they asked why I only put "pilot" for the job selections.....why didn't I put 3 different jobs that I'd like to be considered for like the form said? Now I didn'r want to give the standard "I want to join for mom/apple pie/to serve/higher calling standard song and dance"; so I simply told them, in as humble a manner as possible, that though yes I wanted to serve, I wanted to serve as a pilot....that's what I wanted to do (in OTS applying, you get your AF job
prior to being committed, unlike Academy or ROTC). Also, I already had a career path going, and was willing to cease that in order to offer myself and services to the USAF. Especially since so many of their pilots were jumping ship to go to the airlines, and here I am in the cargo airlines and wanting to go in the opposite direction. I made my statement as matter-of-fact as possible, no "attitude/attitude", just laid the cards on the table with "here...this is why I'm here gents." That didn't get any appreciable reaction one way or the other, but at least I was able to be truthful to both the board members, as well as myself. A few months later, I get a call from a recruiter in CA telling me that I'd been selected for OTS pilot, of which there were very few slots at the time.....most available ones going to ROTC or the Academy.
So attitude is everything, but honesty scores a good amount of points as well, I've found.
It was the same when I joined my current Reserve unit after Active. During the interview, I was asked by the commander what I thought of the current wars going on. I asked if he could be more specific.....what are you referring to sir? He clarified, what did I think of how they were being conducted? I told him I thought it was a cluster-eff, and told him and the board the reasons I thought that. At the conclusion of the interview, he told me that that was the first answer that wasn't a broken record, that they've heard all morning. I told him that, you asked what I thought, you'll get what I think. I'm not going to lie or sugar-coat. You may or may not like my answer, but you should appreciate the honesty.