Ok, so you have like 200+ hours sitting in big airplanes flying with your parents, that is really cool. Have you ever done any of the PTS maneuvers in these airplanes. Flying in an airplane and moving the controls is a lot different than flying an airplane and making it do what you want it to do. You have a great opportunity, and have great support, but don't kid yourself, you have 200 hours of flight time, not flight experience.
I am by no meand jealous of you, I think it is great that you have goals, but there is so much more to do. If you live, eat, and breathe airplanes, you are going to burn yourself out. I have been there and done that. I was known as one of the best motocross race mechanics around. I have won numerous national and regional championships as well as worked for some of the best riders in the country. During junior high and high school all I dreamed about was racing motorcycles. I worked around them every day for years, and now the sound of them irratates me.
Just remember, it is better to know a little about a lot than to know alot about a little. This is where the maturity level comes into play.