While I agree with some of this, some of it also deserves challenging.
Why is it that someone who has been furloughed 3 or 4 times, or who has watched their once great airline dissolved can be happy starting over at 40+ years old, but a younger pilot whose career might be hitting his first speed bump can't handle it?
Well, for one thing, different generations deal with different circumstances in how they got to where they are. Look at today's generation of perpetual regional FOs. These guys didn't spend $20k to get their ratings like I did. Many of them spent $60k or more. A lot of my FOs at Pinnacle spent six figures at Riddle. That's a new phenomenon. The cost to get to the front seat of an airliner has grown exponentially. So while someone back in the '90s might shrug it off and say "hey, it's just another few years and I'll get my brass ring," the guy today is saying "holy crap, I can't afford to both pay my student loan and eat this month!"
You mention guys in the '80s. What percentage of EAL, BNF, etc. pilots were former military? A hell of a lot. It's easier to deal with your cheese being moved when you've got a military pension to cushion the blow.
Just a couple of examples, but the point is that it's not always fair to compare the reactions of different people and hold one up as superior to the other.
I met another pilot recently whose carrier had been merged into another and the merger didn't go so well for him. After the seniority integration was complete he had lost his seat and been forced to commute. He was furious, even though he still had what was by all rights a good paying job with a good quality of life. That's not to say he shouldn't have been upset about being forced to commute. But how is that any different than that Braniff pilot or Eastern pilot or Emery pilot who found himself out of work when his airline went out of business... and starting over commuting to a new domicile at another airline.
Come on! You're just begging me to get mad with this one!

There is absolutely no comparison of an AirTran pilot's seniority rape to the Eastern pilot. Eastern was a failed business. Sure, Lorenzo was scum and made things a lot worse than it had to be, but Eastern was in a death spiral long before Frank came around. Same with Emery, or any number of other airlines where financial failures lead to lost jobs.
Financial failure did not lead to the AirTran pilot being screwed. An unholy alliance between management and SWAPA did. Threats and intimidation did. Refusal to stick by agreements that were made did. To compare this situation to an airline simply going out of business is ridiculous. You know better. The AirTran guy you mention is right to be pissed. He is the product of the worst seniority integration in the history of commercial aviation. AirTran pilots would
beg for the seniority integration that the TWA employees got,
and their integration was so bad that it resulted in new laws being created to supposedly protect employees!
I suggest never mentioning your opinion to an AirTran pilot when you see one in the crew lounge unless you're ready to duck.
OR, you can do what I did and make a change. There are a lot of guys here who have done it. I went back to the airlines when my cheese got moved. ATN_Pilot is taking over his family business because his cheese got moved. If you are that unhappy, then DO something about it!
Easier said than done for most pilots. For starters, many don't have any other skills or education. Look at all of the guys around here with degrees in "professional aeronautics." Try marketing that degree around in unrelated fields. Many have never done any other kind of work. Aviation is all that they know.
You may say to do what you did and find another aviation job. Again, not everyone is able to do that. Most people can't afford to take a 70% pay cut to make a move somewhere else. I know that I would be stuck at SWA if I didn't have my own business to escape to. There isn't a chance that I could bail and go to another airline. Even Delta, with the best first year wages, is more than a 50% pay cut first year. Even for people like me who have the cash available to weather that still can't justify it, because it takes so long to make that money back up again. It's better to just stay where you are and push through the anger. Factor in the time value of money and you can
never recover that lost money. That's too much for most people to accept.
Stuff happens. I'm sorry you have to commute when you didn't before. Or that you're an FO now, when you've been a captain for years. Or that you're starting over at airline number four. I've been there and I know how you feel. But don't make life miserable for the people around you.
This I can agree with. I'm as pissed off at SWA and SWAPA as anyone alive, but I don't even mention it when I'm flying unless the other guy brings it up, and I certainly don't let it affect my performance on the job. Being bitterly pissed off is human. Being bad at your job is unacceptable.
We are all on this ride together and, for better or for worse, it still beats working for a living doesn't it?
Oh, how I hate this phrase with such a passion. If you only knew how many managers have thrown it back in our face. And besides, it ain't that great of a job.