I asked for the pass once when I looked up flights out of the NY area. It probably worked out much better out of ACY for us (and finding out was great as we made several more trips in later months that we would have been able too). I'm very grateful that you did tell us about it.
It seems they are just making digs that I asked in the first place, but we certainly could not have been able to make anything in the NYC area work and he would have missed it.
We didn't go all out, but even a basic wedding is still in the thousands (and for some reason so are most wedding dresses). We have the cake in the freezer. We'll see if we're brave enough to eat it next January.
I'm not the court house in a basic dress kind of girl. I wanted good wedding pictures for our children to see and we really did need it after everything that happened (though we didn't know about that part in the planning process). Everything did work out for the better in the end I'm sure. ACY was a great option that we didn't know about until posting.
We didn't go all out, but even a basic wedding is still in the thousands (and for some reason so are most wedding dresses). We have the cake in the freezer. We'll see if we're brave enough to eat it next January.
You do know to a woman a wedding is MUCH more than it is to a man. Some things you just can't really compromise on. You only get one shot (or at least hopefully you do). I would not want to look back and see me at a courthouse not in a wedding dress for my wedding. We did save where we could and found a wonderful, fairly inexpensive caterer and skipped the DJ (though I'm told that is supposed to be one of the include nonnegotiables, but we hardly noticed).
Am I really supposed to read past that?
Thank god for my big penis. I have to compensate for my lack of testes!
Not saying it can't, but woman do generally care more about the wedding than men do. Most men wouldn't care if it was just the two of you in Vegas or if there were bouquets or a wedding dress. You don't think women care more about the details of a wedding/ having a "real" wedding than a man?
I did look at my parents and was glad they had pictures of a happy day. I think I would have been disappointed if they had pictures in front of courthouse with dad in tennis shoes. Like I've said we didn't go "all out" but did have the things I deemed necessary for a wedding (flowers, photographer, food, cake, basic decorations that we did mostly ourselves). We used the church for both the ceremony and reception, so that saved us. We also skipped the booze (though some of you may find that a necessity- I rarely drink and was supposed to be nearly 8 months pregnant and hubby doesn't drink, so didn't matter to us) and DJ.
We didn't have tenderloin either (hubby doesn't eat beef or pork), but we did have killer chicken marsala! I'd go with the wedding, but keep the cost down. It's probably largely a gender thing, women tend to more value that one day than men. We'll go on the vacation later.
(And we did keep the cost down as much as possible.)
And once same sex couples are allowed to marry, I predict the "marriage industrial complex" is going to be the next big thing.
Want to start a photography company, Chia?
