Max in 3... 2... 1....
But on the wedding topic, you wanted an expensive wedding. There's nothing wrong with that but it has an "opportunity cost". You say you did it for your children, but to be honest, I never asked to see, or even wanted to see any photos from my parents wedding. Chances are, they're not going to care.
It might be interesting now since my dad croaked and I'm starting to look a lot like him (but I'll never be half the pimp), but I rarely look at my own, better yet theirs and especially no one else's. I love my friends to death but Jesus man, put the 800 differently angled shots of that cheesy cake away and pull me a bottle of RC cola.
Now if they said, "Doug! We can't take you fishing for your birthday because we spent a lot of loot on these spiffy photos from our wedding", I would probably think they were nuts.
Sent from my TRS-80