That's because that, as a community, we've failed to adjust to the new reality that is now upon us. In some very fundamental ways, flying an MU-2 with round dials, single pilot in the crap is great experience, but a fundamentally different job than flying an A330.
We are lead astray that because they are both airplanes, and because they both transport things from A to B that the jobs are exactly the same, and the skillsets should be the same, and a determine of competence would be the same. Truth be told, at a previous job, if I couldn't hand fly a single engine partial panel NDB approach to minimums, and then do the published missed then I was not only inept, but dangerous. Now being about to do stuff like that is more "gee whiz" and a whole lot less applicable to normal, or even abnormal operations.
Modern airliners, and many modern corporate jets, are about systems management, and that includes automation management. And all the things that kill pilots in round dial airplanes STILL kill people in automated airplanes, but there are some additional things to look for. While you don't need to be able to crosscheck your instruments to make sure your AI isn't rolling over on you because of an unannunciated system failure, you've reasonably got bigger problems that are possibly even more subtle when the automation doesn't do what it's supposed to do. Cross checking is important, sure, but most of the time the aircraft will SCREAM at you that the data you're looking at is wrong. If it doesn't, it's no different than a graveyard spiral that a non instrument rated private pilot finds themselves in when they get into IMC.
The problem is not a lack of experience, or a lack of training. The problem is us, and our unwillingness to let go of how we were used to do things, and get on board with how things are done now. Whether that's a good thing or not is another debate, and whether you should be able to turn the automation off is another one. But in some aircraft, and in some situations, you simply can't, and lambasting a pilot for getting gigged by the things that gig them in their airplane, because it wouldn't happen in your airplane, is disingenuous.