I once dated, for quite some time, a lady who had the same acerbic wit that I have. We got along great, but jobs and life drifted us apart, as it often does.
She was a “local”, but after we’d been dating for a while, I noticed her friends were very stand off-ish. The wine got the better of me one evening, and I asked her point blank about it.
She says “You intimidate them.” This took me aback, as I am a doughy 5’9”, and even that is fibbing slightly.
She went on: “You speak your mind, you call out BS, especially on ‘common knowledge’, take unconventional positions, and you compound the offense by being invariably right on almost every issue. You’re not even an • about it, but you’re like a Vulcan, laying everything out logically, which just makes it worse.”
She wrapped up this interlude of bluntness with “people don’t like being told being stupid isn’t cool”. I thought that was a rather poignant insight.
My rather roundabout point is don’t judge the correctness of your position by those around you. They’re just trying to be cool.