I had to think long and hard about replying to this thread for fear of retribution, but I wanted to offer my view point for whatever it may be worth. I'm painting with a broad brush, but for better or worse, it is how this forum helped shape my aviation career.
When I joined this forum 20+ years ago, I was firmly on the track of transitioning from military to airlines, so I came here to find out what life at the airlines was like. What I found was many people who have adversarial relationships with their companies, people who love to argue about anything and antagonize each other, and threads that drift off topic quickly into unrelated discussion that make the whole thread worthless. It made me realize I didn't want to join a workforce that would make me bitter, so I pursued a different path away from the airlines where I would be more than a disgruntled number. Much of the content here helped me explore corporate flying, but wading through the off-topic chatter got to be too much work for too little reward.
I used to spend a lot of time every day here reading all the new posts, but I get so tired of the same old echoes and name calling that I rarely come by here anymore. I've found other forums where discussions stick to the topics without all the member bashing, so that's where I spend my time now. I didn't know I could turn off notifications for the lav until I read it in this thread. I'll do that and see if it changes my experience here.