Re: \"romantic life style\"
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Usually when I get home from a trip, I'm pretty high maintenance and end up bugging the crap out of Kristie.
She's independent so it's a little weird for her to go from 'her and the cats' to 'her, the cats and some raving fast-talking lunatic that stinks of jet exhaust, passenger cabin and de-ice fluid' at the drop of a hat four or five times per month.
Usually the first day back I try to give her space until she is used to having me around the house again and then it's back to normal the next day.
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Like he said.. I go into complete independent mode when doug is gone and when he comes back, i have to switch over to loving, dependent wife, so it takes a few hours to do that....sometimes it's more difficult to do, other times it's really easy. it's not that I don't miss him a ton when he's gone, we talk on a daily basis.. just that I put up my *airs* when he's gone as a mode of *protection* in a sense since i'm all by myself, so i have to do the same thing that you pilots have to do - decompress.
Just like when doug gets home, he needs a decompress DAY in which I give him absolutely nothing to do (no honey-do lists!), so he can relax or get his own errands done, play battlefield or what not. that's what he needs...
I wouldn't worry about it too much! some women don't have the change in modes, some do.. I think it really depends on how independent they are and if they're used to taking care of themselves or having someone take care of them.
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Usually when I get home from a trip, I'm pretty high maintenance and end up bugging the crap out of Kristie.
She's independent so it's a little weird for her to go from 'her and the cats' to 'her, the cats and some raving fast-talking lunatic that stinks of jet exhaust, passenger cabin and de-ice fluid' at the drop of a hat four or five times per month.
Usually the first day back I try to give her space until she is used to having me around the house again and then it's back to normal the next day.
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Just like when doug gets home, he needs a decompress DAY in which I give him absolutely nothing to do (no honey-do lists!), so he can relax or get his own errands done, play battlefield or what not. that's what he needs...
I wouldn't worry about it too much! some women don't have the change in modes, some do.. I think it really depends on how independent they are and if they're used to taking care of themselves or having someone take care of them.