Reflecting on Life

No, you've got a point. I've been blessed even if things didn't go as planned.

37 and looking over your shoulder to see what's behind? And wondering where the years went? Hang on. The ride gets quicker and contrary to a lot of the hype, it can get a lot more complicated. But it does not have to...

It depends on one's perspective. I am currently in my cool home office enjoying a cup of rich french roast. I checked my wx sites to see what is going on and currently it is 120F in Baghdad. The low tonight is forecast to be 95 but you know those weathermen.. I'll bet it makes it into the LOW 90s. I am SO glad I am not wearing 100lbs of gear in Iraq on a 2nd or 3rd tour.

And from your brief resume on your posts, you have, as MikeD notes, earned/fell into/were given some pretty good machines to fly. So the real question is not the funk, the ded reckoning or the speed but what is creating the funk?

Sit down with a piece of paper and write out where you would go and what you would do IF. Don't edit as you write down the goals. That comes later. But for starters, just contemplate what IF? Then after you have that list, decide which is THE goal and decide how to get there. Most of us, including me, home rather than track to THE station. But whether homing or tracking, decide and then your journey will seem less circumforaneous.
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37 and looking over your shoulder to see what's behind? And wondering where the years went? Hang on. The ride gets quicker and contrary to a lot of the hype, it can get a lot more complicated. But it does not have to...

And from your brief resume on your posts, you have, as MikeD notes, earned/fell into/were given some pretty good machines to fly. So the real question is not the funk, the ded reckoning or the speed but what is creating the funk?

Exactly.

Reminds me of a guy I knew. At Willie, graduated from UPT and got a T-37 FAIP (First Assignment IP.....stay at Willie as an instructor for 3 years) assignment, rather than go out to the ops world first. Guy was pissed. Upset he couldn't go immediately to an F-15 or C-141, etc, etc.

I always thought that "you know, all in all, you're flying a T-37 jet, based at Willie in SE metro PHX valley and not far from Arizona State Univ, never going to get deployed, home every night, great area, great scenery, doing acro/instruments/patterns all day, and making pretty good money and bennies to boot. Sure, the missions are somewhat predictable and you're not employing any ordnance or doing the ops world stuff, and being a FAIP doesn't do a heck of alot for the career, but it could be worse AF-wise. You could be based in a crappy place like Del Rio, Tx doing the job, you could be flying nothing, you could be only be flying a 172."

It's all perspective. He eventually went on to an F-4, then to the F-117 where I met up with him again.
 
It's all perspective. He eventually went on to an F-4, then to the F-117 where I met up with him again.

My replacement in Vietnam was shot by a young gomer and spent a while recovering. He eventually got an assignment to fly T-41s as an instructor at the Academy. Not the brass ring. Anyway he noticed there was a base hack T-33 and he got to checking around. Seems that the base commander used it and my friend wheedled a check out in the T-bird. He eventually left the USAF and went home. He tried the Guard but they were flying -101s and he needed -101 time to join. But.. they also had a base hack T-33 used for intercepts. He got that job and eventually went on to check out in F-16s and in spite of what some consider a poor start, would up with his star before he retired. Not many FACs got beyond 0-5 much less make a star.

Perspective and deciding where one wants to go.
 
+1 to all that's above, not to mention you have without a doubt the coolest handle ever.

Zap Brannigan is my hero! "Kiff, tell her about my disease!" Kiff: "Sigghhhh...Sexxxx-lexia"


Zap: "I'll take a steak." Waiter: "And for the ladies?" Zap: "They'll have sensual salads...with low-fat sensual dressing."
 
Are you trying to find happiness through your job? If so, no wonder you're still job hunting.

Happiness is family, kids, dogs, beer, boats, flying for fun, reading books, listening to music, laying in the grass... Not a defining career.

:)
 
There was once an American businessman who was sitting by the beach in a small Mexican village. As he sat, he saw a Mexican fisherman rowing a small boat towards the shore and noticed that the fisherman has caught quite a number of big fishes that is known to be a delicacy. The American was really impressed and asked the fisherman, “How long does it take you to catch so many fishes?”

The fisherman replied, “Oh, just a short while.”

“Then why don’t you stay longer at sea and you could catch even more?” The businessman was astonished.

The fisherman simply does not agree. “This is enough to feed my whole family,” he says.

The businessman then asked, “So, what do you do for the rest of the day then?”

The fisherman replied, “Well, I usually wake up early in the morning, go out to sea and catch a few fishes, then I would go back and play with my kids. In the afternoon, I will take a nap with my wife, and evening comes, I will join my buddies in the village for a drink, we play guitar, sing and dance throughout the night. My days are ever so complete and carefree.”
The businessman does not agree with his way of life and offered a suggestion to the fisherman.

“I am a PhD holder graduated from Harvard University, specialising in business management. I could help you to become a more successful person. From now on, you have to spend more time at sea and try to catch as many fishes as possible. And when you have saved enough money, you could buy a bigger boat and catch even more fishes. As you go on, you will be able to afford to buy more boats, recruit more fishermen and lead a team of your own. Soon you will be able to set up your own company, your very own production plant for canned food and do direct selling to your distributors. At that time, you will have moved out of this village and to Mexico City, and then expand your operation to LA, and finally to New York City, where you can set up your HQ to manage all your other branches.”

The fisherman asks, “So, how long would that take?”

The businessman reply, “About 15 to 20 years.”

The fisherman continues, “And after that?”

The businessman laughs heartily, “After that, you can live like a king in your own house, and when the time is right, you can go public and float your shares in the Stock Exchange, by then you will be rich, your income will be coming in by the millions!”

The fisherman asks, “And after that?”

The businessman says, “After that, you can finally retire, you can move to a house by the fishing village, wake up early in the morning and catch a few fishes, then return home to play with kids, have a nice afternoon nap with your wife, and when evening comes, you can join your buddies for a drink, play the guitar, sing and dance throughout the night!”

The fisherman was puzzled, “Isn’t that what I am doing now?”
 
Nope, i'm good. Was just feeling blue that evening. Don't think there's anything wrong with that every now and again.
 
There was once an American businessman who was sitting by the beach in a small Mexican village. As he sat, he saw a Mexican fisherman rowing a small boat towards the shore and noticed that the fisherman has caught quite a number of big fishes that is known to be a delicacy. The American was really impressed and asked the fisherman, “How long does it take you to catch so many fishes?”

The fisherman replied, “Oh, just a short while.”

“Then why don’t you stay longer at sea and you could catch even more?” The businessman was astonished.

The fisherman simply does not agree. “This is enough to feed my whole family,” he says.

The businessman then asked, “So, what do you do for the rest of the day then?”

The fisherman replied, “Well, I usually wake up early in the morning, go out to sea and catch a few fishes, then I would go back and play with my kids. In the afternoon, I will take a nap with my wife, and evening comes, I will join my buddies in the village for a drink, we play guitar, sing and dance throughout the night. My days are ever so complete and carefree.”
The businessman does not agree with his way of life and offered a suggestion to the fisherman.

“I am a PhD holder graduated from Harvard University, specialising in business management. I could help you to become a more successful person. From now on, you have to spend more time at sea and try to catch as many fishes as possible. And when you have saved enough money, you could buy a bigger boat and catch even more fishes. As you go on, you will be able to afford to buy more boats, recruit more fishermen and lead a team of your own. Soon you will be able to set up your own company, your very own production plant for canned food and do direct selling to your distributors. At that time, you will have moved out of this village and to Mexico City, and then expand your operation to LA, and finally to New York City, where you can set up your HQ to manage all your other branches.”

The fisherman asks, “So, how long would that take?”

The businessman reply, “About 15 to 20 years.”

The fisherman continues, “And after that?”

The businessman laughs heartily, “After that, you can live like a king in your own house, and when the time is right, you can go public and float your shares in the Stock Exchange, by then you will be rich, your income will be coming in by the millions!”

The fisherman asks, “And after that?”

The businessman says, “After that, you can finally retire, you can move to a house by the fishing village, wake up early in the morning and catch a few fishes, then return home to play with kids, have a nice afternoon nap with your wife, and when evening comes, you can join your buddies for a drink, play the guitar, sing and dance throughout the night!”

The fisherman was puzzled, “Isn’t that what I am doing now?”

Mmmm...Jimmy John's
 
Well I am in GEG and won't be able to make it until Friday night with my workload right now. Are you doing the fire north of EAT?

we did a few loads the other day...we been sittin' around waiting...but if we're here tomorrow after 1800 we'll be here Friday...(our day off)
 
Zap,

now that I have time to post more than a smiley, your feelings are felt on a daily basis by all. With the economy being the way it is, it has a cascading effect that is far more reaching than anyone really can comprehend.

When I mention this to most, they say, but I"m not financially stressed. And my response is, that may be, what the people you interact with are. And that effects you directly.

We all have doubts about whether we made the right decision. I usually toss and turn in bed for a good 30 minutes thinking about whether I made the right decision on just about everything.

Hang in there man, I envy you that you have already started your family. The one thing I have yet to start is that. It is very hard to find the right girl that see's me eye to eye on the core issues of life.......at least in Orange County, CA.
 
I'm feeling melancholy tonight. I'm almost 37 years old. Why am I still job hunting after all of these years? Why am I not happy where I am? What the heck happened to the last 18 years? It seems like just yesterday I was leaving for college? Why did the first 18 years of life take SO LONG... and more importantly, why did the second 18 years go by SO FAST??!!

Do you ever have nights like this? When you reflect on your life and wonder if you've just been ded-reckoning? :crazy:

Flying has its ups and downs...
 
There was once an American businessman who was sitting by the beach in a small Mexican village. As he sat, he saw a Mexican fisherman rowing a small boat towards the shore and noticed that the fisherman has caught quite a number of big fishes that is known to be a delicacy. The American was really impressed and asked the fisherman, “How long does it take you to catch so many fishes?”

The fisherman replied, “Oh, just a short while.”

“Then why don’t you stay longer at sea and you could catch even more?” The businessman was astonished.

The fisherman simply does not agree. “This is enough to feed my whole family,” he says.

The businessman then asked, “So, what do you do for the rest of the day then?”

The fisherman replied, “Well, I usually wake up early in the morning, go out to sea and catch a few fishes, then I would go back and play with my kids. In the afternoon, I will take a nap with my wife, and evening comes, I will join my buddies in the village for a drink, we play guitar, sing and dance throughout the night. My days are ever so complete and carefree.”
The businessman does not agree with his way of life and offered a suggestion to the fisherman.

“I am a PhD holder graduated from Harvard University, specialising in business management. I could help you to become a more successful person. From now on, you have to spend more time at sea and try to catch as many fishes as possible. And when you have saved enough money, you could buy a bigger boat and catch even more fishes. As you go on, you will be able to afford to buy more boats, recruit more fishermen and lead a team of your own. Soon you will be able to set up your own company, your very own production plant for canned food and do direct selling to your distributors. At that time, you will have moved out of this village and to Mexico City, and then expand your operation to LA, and finally to New York City, where you can set up your HQ to manage all your other branches.”

The fisherman asks, “So, how long would that take?”

The businessman reply, “About 15 to 20 years.”

The fisherman continues, “And after that?”

The businessman laughs heartily, “After that, you can live like a king in your own house, and when the time is right, you can go public and float your shares in the Stock Exchange, by then you will be rich, your income will be coming in by the millions!”

The fisherman asks, “And after that?”

The businessman says, “After that, you can finally retire, you can move to a house by the fishing village, wake up early in the morning and catch a few fishes, then return home to play with kids, have a nice afternoon nap with your wife, and when evening comes, you can join your buddies for a drink, play the guitar, sing and dance throughout the night!”

The fisherman was puzzled, “Isn’t that what I am doing now?”

Great story, I have heard it before, do you know where it came from.





On that note I am 23, with a wife and kid, working a job 700 miles away from home for crap pay and 10 days off a month all in hope of being able to make it on a major before I am 30. I figure then it will all be better! I will have a lot more time at home I will still be young enough to do anything I want to with my family and kids and my wife won't have to work anymore.

Does it ever get better though?
 
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