atpwannabe
Well-Known Member
Hello all:
I'll start by giving you some background.
My ex-wife and I were on target to get remarried this past August. Didn't happen. I start flight training this January and her position with a local school district was eliminated due to budget cuts. She's looking for employment outside of the immediate area where she lives.
About a two weeks or so ago, I told her that I still had the engagement ring that I bought for her back in April. Her response was that, "She felt pressured and she was enjoying our friendship like it was when we first met". I said ok, now I know where we stand. She was dating someone else and from what she told me, he dumped her when she wasn't able to find employment. She said that she met him on the internet. I have still helped her financially since she is not working b/c we have a 4 yr old together. Now, it seems that she's wants to come down to visit more often, bringing my son, since she just got a help from me & my parents to eliminate about $2000 worth of debt. Not quite sure where my ex is going with this....if anywhere.
Enter Yahoo Personals (YP) for me. I posted a profile. I got some responses. This one in particular, I have been only knowing her for about 2 weeks and she says that she loves me; that she has fallen for me. I'll admit, we consumated the relationship early. She's an RN, does quite well, and wants to buy me a Christmas present, she bought me a birthday gift (12/09), and wants to take me on cruise for the New Year.
Man, you talk about things moving at the speed of light. Right now, I'm starting to feel constricted/smothered. She's always talking about how much she has to offer and how she wants to spoil me. I've told her on several occasions that that was not necessary.
Ladies, guys.....you too, I need some genuine feedback on how to handle this situation. Mind you now, I did tell her that me and my ex-wife where thinking about getting back together and I did mention to her what my ex said concerning the fact that she is enjoying our friendship. Was I wrong for that?
I'm really trying to figure out what made her move so fast. She's a really nice person but I'm just bafflled about how to handle this situation. :banghead:
Please help!!!!
atp
I'll start by giving you some background.
My ex-wife and I were on target to get remarried this past August. Didn't happen. I start flight training this January and her position with a local school district was eliminated due to budget cuts. She's looking for employment outside of the immediate area where she lives.
About a two weeks or so ago, I told her that I still had the engagement ring that I bought for her back in April. Her response was that, "She felt pressured and she was enjoying our friendship like it was when we first met". I said ok, now I know where we stand. She was dating someone else and from what she told me, he dumped her when she wasn't able to find employment. She said that she met him on the internet. I have still helped her financially since she is not working b/c we have a 4 yr old together. Now, it seems that she's wants to come down to visit more often, bringing my son, since she just got a help from me & my parents to eliminate about $2000 worth of debt. Not quite sure where my ex is going with this....if anywhere.
Enter Yahoo Personals (YP) for me. I posted a profile. I got some responses. This one in particular, I have been only knowing her for about 2 weeks and she says that she loves me; that she has fallen for me. I'll admit, we consumated the relationship early. She's an RN, does quite well, and wants to buy me a Christmas present, she bought me a birthday gift (12/09), and wants to take me on cruise for the New Year.
Man, you talk about things moving at the speed of light. Right now, I'm starting to feel constricted/smothered. She's always talking about how much she has to offer and how she wants to spoil me. I've told her on several occasions that that was not necessary.
Ladies, guys.....you too, I need some genuine feedback on how to handle this situation. Mind you now, I did tell her that me and my ex-wife where thinking about getting back together and I did mention to her what my ex said concerning the fact that she is enjoying our friendship. Was I wrong for that?
I'm really trying to figure out what made her move so fast. She's a really nice person but I'm just bafflled about how to handle this situation. :banghead:
Please help!!!!
atp