Half of me wonders if a lot of the apparent inability to revert to actually flying an airplane versus mashing buttons is a product of trying to teach the whole thing like a science/script, rather than developing a fluid understanding of the art of energy management.
Look, I've gotta say it—If modern airline pilots are just sitting in the seat to manage the automation, follow the script and keep the airplane within a rigid set of parameters for an entire flight, and if that's truly the path to safety, then humans have no business flying airliners and computers should do all of the flying all of the time, with a system monkey to manage the electronics like a modern automated train system.
Computers are capable of processing far more individual inputs far more quickly than a human, if you're only dealing with quantified and quantifiable data.
Personally, I'd prefer to fly on an airplane with a pilot engaged and active throughout the entire process of flying than on a fully automated airplane... but you can't really have it both ways—an incredibly tight box with strict checklists and sequencing, strict numbers for all phases of operations, etc, run by humans, without errors. In my opinion the failure modes we're seeing that we're classifying as "automation dependence" are the same failure modes you'd see in a fully automated system, where bad data, no data or lack of data leads the logic into an incorrect state... these are not the failure modes you see from a human-dependent system, which often relies on gut feeling, observation and intuition.
-Fox