JohnGalt said:If I have no children, does that forbid me from ever discussing about parents and parenting?
Actually, yeah. I don't know jack about being a parent so I generally reserve comment on it except when it interferes with my beer and hot wing's at BW3.You have to stick with the choices you make. You can't blame others for it. Look at Doug, I can bet that he already has an idea for a home business. I bet that not only does he have idea, but he has put in the time and effort into research AND possible development of his business. I can also bet that Doug has an emergency fund incase something happens at his air line. He isn't sitting around moping and bitching about the state of the airline business. He might be, but he is also preparing for the worst scenerio.
Nah, I can speak for myself. It's one of my pet peeves when people assume stuff when I'm right here with the ability to answer.
Actually, my business plans and personal finances are not on public display for consumption nor or they related to anything going on within the airline business.
It's a drag going to work. It'd be a drag going to work if I was a skydiving porn star too! Life isn't about showing up to work monday thru friday, 10 hours a day and hoping to build a nest egg for retirement.
Life isn't about working you fingers to the bone that's going to spit you out broken, half-neurotic and standing in line at Luby's for the chopped liver special. That's not a barb thrown at the airlines, that's a barb thrown at corporate America and what it's become.
Was it the airline business that caused that shift in mentality?
Not at all.
The change in philosophy came from having my father die right after he retired, watching Kristie's mom die of cancer before she was 50 and watching my brother-in-law die of cancer at 23.
All of them had 'plans for the future'. All had focused on jobs, what they were going to do 'one day' and none of it happened.
So I decided that what's important isn't some job, it's about living life. It's about pursuing a world where if I, in fact, die at 40, I'd die with a smile on my face not having worried about things that I never had a chance to do.
Keep in mind, I'm named after my uncle, Douglas Lee Taylor I, who died at 35.
I luv ya like my brotha from anotha motha John_Galt, but I think I was a pretty rotten example to use as part of some economic philosophy you're trying to argue with everyone else here.
My life experiences aren't a "negative", but it was a kick in the ass to me to experience life as it happens, rather than some unattainable plan of doing it all later. Life isn't "woo hoo! I got a promotion at work!" life is, in my opinion, much deeper, far sweeter and a hell of a fun ride if you just live it as it's happening. Dance in public, sing to your wife, crack inappropriate jokes in front of kindergarteners -- it happens quick. Ya better enjoy it!
The business decisions that I make aren't a backup to an airline career at all. They're working towards me waking up one day and saying "You know what, I'm going to go to Einstein's bagel, take a book and I'm going to spend all freaking morning enjoying that cup of coffee and enjoy my God-given freedom" and have no one call me to say "Are you going to show up to work today? Oh, and about those TPS reports..."
"Today IS the 'good old days'"
