"if you go to mom and pop FBO, every lesson isn't going to be some excursion to far off fantasy land"
The mom and pop FBO experience will get you out of the "sheltered" environment that an academy like UND produces. You'll deal with things and see things you'd never see at UND. Some of them aren't pretty but they build character and expand your experience level.
I've seen it first hand with UND grads here in Spokane. An example would be checking out a UND guy in a Cessna. Here's a guy with a CFI and 200 hours dual given and I nearly need to take the airplane from him on his first couple of landings (I'm a fast talker). Really, the world outside the bubble expects more than that.
Staying inside the bubble will lead to a regional job just as fast as going outside will, maybe faster. I think leaving your mother before proceding in this career, however, will teach you things you never imagined.
Don, you flew with one UND guy, who had a bad day in a Cessna, and now UND shelters its students??? UND doesn't build charachter? That is awfully big of you to say, glad you have been appointed to judge, jury and executioner of all that is holy in the aviaiton world.
There is no bubble at UND, there are weather mins, just like any FBO would have, the one here in RST wouldn't let me rent a 182 because the weather was going to be less than 1000 ovc in DVL (where I was going) in July.
People have always pissed and moaned about not being able to sit on the ground and go get a burger, blah blah blah. That is because I am sitting in dispatch waiting for the airplane so my student, who is more concerned with learning to fly than getting a hamburger at Hooters in the Mall of America, can go on our lesson. Airplanes make money in the air, not sitting on the ramp for 3 hours while social butterflies make their rounds.
UND used to let students overnight airplanes so they could go somewhere else, until people started abusing, coming back days later.
By far, the students turned out from UND were head and shoulders above the average part 61 student. Yup I said it, I flew with a lot of "test course" students who couldn't find their ass with both hands a flashlight and a map. A practice area, my god!!! what is that. You mean I have to keep a flight log for my cross countries AND stay on course, my god!
See I can do it too, make generalizations about other ways of doing things.
By the way Don, I had the misfortune of sharing the crew van with a UPS 757 Capt in LRD, the guy could not have been more of an ass to my crew, the hotel staff or the van driver, all because he couldn't read a schedule and determine the appropriate time to be in the lobby for a van ride to the airplane. Does that make all UPS pilots dickheads?