I agree.....there are things that have been screamed at me (and others that I know) in mil training that would get a civilian CFI fired in a New York minute, no matter how good or experienced they were. It's a modern military with women integrated into the system, so of course many places are more "PC", but trust me when I say that mil jet training is as old school as you can still find anywhere. From a student's perspective, you can call it unprofessional, or you can simply take it like a man, laugh it off, and recognize that the brutal honesty is there to make you better.....not to hurt your feelings.