I walked off a jet once but I didn’t curse at the captain. I just... Left! 
Flight cancelled for the reasons I left for so I guess I was vindicated!.
The scene:
Flying VCN to JFK. Radar inoperative and necessary for a westbound flight over the tracks. No parts in VCN and maintenance decided that we’d fly from VCN, do a “hot swap” in FRA and continue to NYC.
Running some numbers, it looked like we were going to land 80,000 pounds over max landing weight and the options were to de-fuel the aircraft or take a Mediterranean tour on a zig-zag route to Frankfurt (which actually wasn’t an option because we’d time out anyway).
Notifed the captain that we wouldn’t be able to follow through with maintenances plan.
He said, “Maintenance said we’re good, we’re going”.
“I am uncomfortable with the plan and I strongly feel we should talk to flight control to talk about this plan”
“No. I’m the captain, this is the plan”
“We need to talk to flight control”
”Are you questioning my authority?”
I said nothing, started packing my belongings and exited into the jetway.
“Where are you going?”
”to call crew scheduling and get off the flight”
The agent comes running down saying that flight control had just cancelled the flight because of legalities with the plan to land in FRA and they’re just going to have the part forwarded from FCO later that evening.
No apology, no mea culpa, just a red-faced look of pith on his face, the other FO was largely indifferent and 48 hours became 72 In VCN.
He’s dead now so I really shouldn’t hold any ill will towards him, but I still do.
Flight cancelled for the reasons I left for so I guess I was vindicated!.
The scene:
Flying VCN to JFK. Radar inoperative and necessary for a westbound flight over the tracks. No parts in VCN and maintenance decided that we’d fly from VCN, do a “hot swap” in FRA and continue to NYC.
Running some numbers, it looked like we were going to land 80,000 pounds over max landing weight and the options were to de-fuel the aircraft or take a Mediterranean tour on a zig-zag route to Frankfurt (which actually wasn’t an option because we’d time out anyway).
Notifed the captain that we wouldn’t be able to follow through with maintenances plan.
He said, “Maintenance said we’re good, we’re going”.
“I am uncomfortable with the plan and I strongly feel we should talk to flight control to talk about this plan”
“No. I’m the captain, this is the plan”
“We need to talk to flight control”
”Are you questioning my authority?”
I said nothing, started packing my belongings and exited into the jetway.
“Where are you going?”
”to call crew scheduling and get off the flight”
The agent comes running down saying that flight control had just cancelled the flight because of legalities with the plan to land in FRA and they’re just going to have the part forwarded from FCO later that evening.
No apology, no mea culpa, just a red-faced look of pith on his face, the other FO was largely indifferent and 48 hours became 72 In VCN.
He’s dead now so I really shouldn’t hold any ill will towards him, but I still do.