Not trying to be a smart ass.....pancakes, waffels and eggs are inexpensive, as is all kinds of Campbells and Progresso soups, sandwiches, tuna, cottage cheese with fruit, grilled cheese sandwiches, meatloaf, chili, and pasta and sauce. Kids love that stuff too. Buy chicken and fish when it's on sale- if you can buy extra and freeze it, frozen veggies and ditto extra lean hamburger on sale. It's a pain but try to buy things on sale and with coupons and plan out some meals in advance. We were pretty poor when I had my first two kids, so I understand. Check out making some inexpensive stews and casseroles that you can eat the leftovers of. Canned refried beans, rice, hamburger, tortillas, cheese with some salsa and make burritos. Sometimes we get in a rut. Variety really helps and kids are flexible, thankfully. Stater Brothers is way less expensive than Vons, Ralphs and Albertsons to shop at. What really matters is the time you get to spend with them anyways. Those are the memories that matter and that they will remember. Not being able to eat steaks or eat out all the time won't matter.