Scared pilot syndrome really bugs me. I flew with a guy once who would would let out a little yell and grab onto the nearest oh "crap" handle as hard as he could anytime we hit a pocket of turbulence. So annoying.
The only time I should've been scared in the last few years (but wasn't until after the fact) was the first time I tried to land a 747 in a 30 knot crosswind a few years ago. Of course this was at JFK on 4R which is about 8000 ft long (short for a 747 at 650,000 lbs, as we were that day). Winds 310@30. Why not use 31L or R? I don't know, it's New York, they don't do things that make sense
I touched down in a slight crab, one wing slightly low. I floated just a bit but greased the wing and body gear on about 2000 ft from the runway threshold....I relaxed and thought I was a pimp. Then the spoilers deployed and all hell broke loose. The left wing rose like mad and the nose started to rear up like any angry cobra. In no time the thing is damn near 10 degrees nose up on the runway and it feels like we're about to slide out of our seats to the right. Yeah......the captain had to help me get that one under control. Full nose down and left turn input on the yoke eventually brought the nose gear down with a "THUD", thanks in part to the autobrakes kicking in near max. Humbling, but lesson learned....the wing on the whale keeps flying long after it's on the ground. Similarly it starts flying well before rotation - the upwind wing will always rise up on you don't give it at least a little bit of correction before rotation. I have a new-found respect for those guys trying to land the things at the old Kai Tak airport in HKG a few decades ago.