I sympathize with you guys that are having to make these large payments, but what you wrote almost sounds like entitlement.
There was never a guarantee made to any of us that we were going to be captains in less than five years... There was plenty of information out there when all of us started flight training about how devastating a large amount of debt can be for an entry level pilot.
When I graduated college in 2001, I had a lot of debt. Student loans, credit cards, new motorcycle, and a new car. It was just stupid of me to get into so many financial obligations, but I had absolutely NOBODY to blame but myself (that's for you, TXAVIATOR). I had to sacrifice a lot to get out from underneath that debt. But I sure learned a lot, and am much more careful now.
Even after all of that, the thought of getting a loan was very, very tempting to me at times when I was paying cash for my flight training. I felt like my training took forever, and I just wanted to quit working at a job I hated and start flying for a living. But I just knew that this wasn't in my best interest financially after running several Excel spreadsheets. Numbers don't lie, and it was a good way to dispel the glossy flight school ads. I started flying in May 2004, and was a CFI in July 2007. So even though it took some time, it wasn't that bad.
I'm sorry you guys have a high debt load that you are unable to afford. But for those in that situation, you have nobody to blame but yourselves. Hopefully you're able to get second jobs or something to get out of the debt spiral... Once you get out, you'll never want to go back.