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Keep your chin up, things happen for a reason!
I was born & raised in Chicago and I live there now. When I started my quest to be an airline pilot United was at the top of my list, because they were my hometown airline and it seemed like it would be a good place to be in 1987.
Fast forward to 1993 - I'd been at USAir and left for Delta, then furloughed. I finally got my opportunity to interview at United in 1995.
It was the worst interview experience I have ever had. Up to that point I had interviewed at about 5 other airlines and had always been offered the job. My United interview was a train-wreck from start to finish. At one point I was very tempted to ask the interviewers why they had even bothered to call me in, since they obviously were not interested in hiring me.
Needless to say, I was turned down by United. I was very disappointed but not crushed, because I already had a good job at Delta, I just had to wait to be recalled.
Fast forward to today. Would I rather be at Delta or United?
I think I'm much better off at Delta. We'll see - I haven't reached retirement age yet...
You might be much better off as a corporate pilot at Wal-Mart than at Southwest. We won't know for awhile, but my personal opinion is that Southwest has some challenges ahead of it and things won't necessarily be that rosy there for the bottom half of their seniority list for some time to come...
You have a great family and your health from what I've read; time to re-dedicate yourself to your current job. If you're really that unhappy working there, then keep trying for something else, you've got all the boxes checked and it will happen if you're persistent.
JMHO!
Kevin