hah this reminds me of a leg I had a while back, on a bumpy day (one of those bumpy everywhere ones), and the CA had advised the lead/A that it would be bumpy but that they can do service if they were comfortable. We get part way down the road, and they call us up, asking when its getting better (it probably isn't). They call again shortly, and now they say they are not in agreement about being comfortable doing service and asked whether they should do it or not. I dunno. I'm not an experienced CA (or even a CA), so I'd defer the judgement to others. But my feeling was that they have their own crew management structure, and I'm gonna delegate the authority for that decision to the lead FA. I don't know what the F they are working with, or what any of it entails. If they can't agree, that sounds like an issue with the A. But in this scenario, it was as if they couldn't solve their problem unless they got a direct order from the CA to do service, or some promise that the ride would get batter (hah). Who in the world, in the flight deck with a lap belt on sipping coffee, would make that order? I'm probably way off base here, but it just really didn't seem like our lane. Granted I've never really seen anything of that nature happen again, before or since.