I do not plan on taking the 'swine flu" shot.
You are correct. There are 20,000+ deaths each year in the US due to the "regular" flu and we don't see the hype we see with the "swine" flu. BTW, Tamiflu, which shortens the course of the disease by 1 day, costs $170.
They are not available to the general public yet.
Do not recommend it. Flu is flu. People who are healthy do not need it. Small children, pregnant women, immunosupressed people are the ones who should take the vaccine.
Yes you can take it and fly. You can take both together also.