Wow someone is getting really personal. Well, career change for starters? I left an engineering job paying paying good money to go to jet U, with no guarantee I’d walk out of it with a pilot job. That was the biggest gamble I took in my career. Earning that much money, walking away to 0 dollars, throwing 27k away at jet U, and potential nothing to show for it. Only by sheer luck and timing did I get hired at a regional. Had it been just a few months later, I’d have no flying job nor an engineering job in the 2008-2010 GFC. I went through 2 mergers with binding SLIs in the career, and 3 moves across the country. I have not been furloughed, yet anyway. The marriage comment was really below the belt, even for you. I met her family through family friends. You mean to tell me none of you ever met your wife through someone in your family who knew someone? vouching for someone is a pretty big thing in a lot of Asian cultures.
You missed the entire point of the conversation before. We were talking about people who were on cloud 9 having never seen any adversity or bad times in this industry (anyone the last several years) and thought it would last, because somehow THIS time, it was different. Enter Covid19. We will recover and then within another 10 yrs there will be another event that will cause us to go down again. Rinse, repeat.