:sitaware:...it comes about in different ways for people. I'm glad your sim partner had his moment.
My last inital sim was on a steam-guage jet. Now, for the previous 9 years, I had glass, my FMS and moving map. Needless to say I had my hands full getting back my "steam skills", and learning new callouts, and a new airplane. Add a weak partner (but really great guy) to the mix, too. Even during the dreaded 3-engine approach, I was busy.
It was kind of a humbling experience after not even thinking twice about a checkride for the last 6 years. At the end of the day, I had to strip my sim session down to the foundation to make it work. I focused on my organization of the cockpit, and assigning tasks (I flew all this in my head prior to sim, even after we'd practice). When I had a "game plan", I could focus on keeping the greasy-side pointed to the dirt, and not get balled up thinking about what I had to do.
Best of luck to you and your sim partner. I'm sure things will go alot smoother for ya'll, making your checkride a breeze.
Only other thing, for me, is to take some time and soak up the knowledge.