A Life Aloft
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Having thoughts and praying (if that's your thing) is great. Posting it online is usually more a case of social media masturbation. Like the poor kid that was tortured in Chicago, this is one of those events where EVERYONE of sound mind is appalled. But let's be honest, 90% of the #thoughtsandprayers crowd will be back to their daily lives and reality tv in a couple hours. Until we really want to apply logic to these situations and have an honest conversation, this kind of stuff will continue to be every day life in America.
Again, I am not a user of social media except for some forums. Have no facebook or twitter account or anything. But we have to recognize that millions do use social media as a way to communicate and reach a large "audience" or their friends and relatives or whatever. The motivations vary as do the people who use social media. While there have been some very positive uses of this form of media/communication, there have also been some negative and just asinine, inane uses as well. That's what you get with the general public. The good, the bad and everything in between.
I am not even a "religious" person (certainly not connected to any Western religion), as my thoughts/beliefs are more in touch with some Eastern religions and I do believe in meditation, positive thoughts, the soul, karma, that we are all interconnected and more.
That being said, there are people who do sincerely and honestly care, who are not attention who***, who believe in the passive power of thoughts, prayer, mediation, positive energy or whatever. They believe that can help and they sincerely want to help. I don't see this as something negative or to necessary mock if the person is sincere and truly are concerned, moved and wants to help in the only way they can think of to do at the moment.
I don't want to become so cynical that I start lumping everyone who posts something of that nature as how you have described them, without having a clue who anyone really is nor their motivations or what is in their heart.
Remember, those who are sending hopes, wishes, thoughts, prayers, or whatever out to others, aren't involved at the moment in trying to find any solutions for these terrible events, they just want to help in the interim the best that they can and are disturbed and moved. I actually view this as a positive sign. It speaks to me of hope and compassion. The day I don't see these thoughts/emotions being expressed, is the day I will seriously begin to worry and be upset.
Discussions need to happen, possible solutions need to be discussed and found, but in the moment, what happens, happens. People react how they react and I cannot fault them for it. They are upset and sympathetic. People are still trying to digest and wrap their heads around the event. You might as well compare what we are saying right now. It won't change anything either.
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