Sad......

MikeD said:
We can trade restraining orders if you like; I think you'll like the terms of mine to be more convenient. :)
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"I recognize and acknowledge your frustration however, I also feel that the undue aggressive language is emotionally distracting..."

Is this how hipsters argue now? :)
 
I am terribly sorry to hear about this happening man. I know that relationships ending can hurt so bad, and I have never been in anything as serious as 5 years and having a child between the two. I look forward to seeing you in Vegas this year! I will definitely pray for you and your child. I wish you the best, and let me know if there is anything I can ever do.
 
Derg said:
So much for the lunch discount at Chuck E. Cheese? :)
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Oddly enough, that's the threat our boss uses when we do paperwork incorrectly, or this or that incorrectly that pisses him off: "The next son of a bitch who screws this up for the 100th time, I'll have you working security guard detail at the local Chuck E Cheese on every weekend night and every birthday party night! We'l' see if that mistake is made again...."

Pretty damn effective threat.
 
The bad news is I'll have less time with my little girl!

Now I have a whole lot of stuff to sort through in the house. I'll try to take my CFI-A ride in October. Gives me a chance to relax, get over the emotional shock and do some more prep. I still have my CMEL set for Sep 19-20.

The good news is I get to meet a lot of folks in Vegas and don't have to worry about photos making it to the Internet ;)

I have been divorced before and have older kids, so I know the ropes. Timing couldn't have been worse though. Once I'm over the shock, and figure out the ground rules (time before moving, time with daughter, etc... Then I should be OK). Have to wait until Friday before we are both in the same house to discuss though.

As before, I appreciate the comments and well wishes. JC community really is the best! If I can ever help anyone, please let me know!

John
 
MikeD said:
Oddly enough, that's the threat our boss uses when we do paperwork incorrectly, or this or that incorrectly that pisses him off: "The next son of a bitch who screws this up for the 100th time, I'll have you working security guard detail at the local Chuck E Cheese on every weekend night and every birthday party night! We'l' see if that mistake is made again...."

Pretty damn effective threat.
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At least at Chuck E Chesse you get a better paycheck..............:oops:
 
So I'll be staying at the polo towers for NJC. If I still fly the Mooney in with @FlyByWire22 we should arrive late Thursday and depart Sunday. If this new found situation forces me to fly commercial, I will likely arrive the afternoon of Thursday and depart Sunday.

Someone make sure I don't get in too much trouble and no one writes on me with a sharpie.

Also no face tattoos please! I survived Thailand without them already. :)
 
jskibo said:
The bad news is I'll have less time with my little girl!

Now I have a whole lot of stuff to sort through in the house. I'll try to take my CFI-A ride in October. Gives me a chance to relax, get over the emotional shock and do some more prep. I still have my CMEL set for Sep 19-20.

The good news is I get to meet a lot of folks in Vegas and don't have to worry about photos making it to the Internet ;)

I have been divorced before and have older kids, so I know the ropes. Timing couldn't have been worse though. Once I'm over the shock, and figure out the ground rules (time before moving, time with daughter, etc... Then I should be OK). Have to wait until Friday before we are both in the same house to discuss though.

As before, I appreciate the comments and well wishes. JC community really is the best! If I can ever help anyone, please let me know!

John
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Look forward to meeting you in Vegas!:) While this is a crappy situation, the bright side is that this happened before you were married again. I'm previously divorced and my kids live almost on the other side of the country, so I know how hard it is when being separated from your child. My nonrev benefits are a saving grace when it comes to seeing my kids.
 
Sorry to hear that man. Went through something like this in college, though not quite as bad.

Time is the only thing that will make this not suck. Just keep doing what you're doing. Devote yourself to something...a hobby, training, etc.

And then drink your face off with us in Vegas.
 
A Life Aloft said:
Oh man.....this is no bueno. Things had to have been doing awry for sometime....this can't be a sudden deal. Is she willing to sit down and discuss the situation? If not to resolve it, then for clarification so that you will understand what happened and why and also you will need to be working out how you are going to see and be involved in your child's life - which is the most important issue.

No one deserves this and I know you must be confused, angry, hurt and upset. If she was that unhappy, for whatever reason(s) she should have been honest, let you know, at least attempted to work things out or made a clean break and not cheated on you behind your back. That is really awful and I am sorry. Cheating for me, is a deal breaker. Some people can work it out, but that's easier said than done.
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The child part is disturbing.
As far as the relationship issues are concerned, it's been my experience and observation that once it gets to this point, it's done. She got airplane jealous. While you've been gone, she was fusting and machinating. She made her decision weeks ago. You missed the subtle, virtually imperceptible clues that you were supposed to see or sense but couldn't because you are a normal male of the species. You were supposed to sense that she wanted you around and not out playing with and airplane. For better or worse, most females see the airplane as competition and equate your job with that of a playboy. While you were out working to reify your dreams for your future together, she was packing. The females are way ahead of us in these ways. Now, don't everyone slap me at once. These are just my personal observations.
Again, for your child's sake, I'm sorry to hear about your troubles. Keep your child close. Take up JordanD on his offer of adult beverages in Vegas. Time will help. This too shall pass.
 
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