OK so am I the only one that instantly sees a newspaper headline when I read each successive post by pilot4500? (don't answer that, it's a rhetorical question)
The eject button is as close as a pen and piece of paper...
Well I just read all the posts and I don't really come to the same conclusion.
The "engine quitting" stories are all just idle adjustments and the engine won't "quit" in the air for that reason - so I don't see that as dangerous or likely to lead to a fatal accident.
The engine fire probably was from over-priming - I know the poster said they were careful not to over-prime, but it's easy to do, and every engine is different. I don't "blame" the poster - but it was probably the pilots actions that were the root cause of the fire (well the root cause is the propensity for those engines to catch on fire, but sticking with this one incident).
It's hard IMC single engine - but that's not inherently dangerous, perhaps more dangerous than hard IMC in a multi-engine, but I'm not sure that's a fact - the statistics can be manipulated anyway you like. To be fair though, RAM will tell you if you're not willing to fly IMC to minimums don't bother applying - that's what they do.
As far as I know RAM has only ever lost one pilot - and he hit a perfectly good radio tower in a sparklingly clear VFR day and was over 100 miles from the departure and the destination. So other than not screening out somebody who apparently wasn't too bright, you can't really blame RAM for that one. Package Express had their problems - but let's assume that RAMs stellar maintenance practices

have resolved those issues.
I know a lot of people who flew and fly at RAM - it's certainly not for everyone. The nature of the beast is that pilots will feel pressured to complete their assigned trips - if they didn't some pilots would be canceling flights when the ceilings dropped below 1,000 ft. On the other hand, if the pilot really says it's a no-go they will respect that. For example the poster didn't go with a mag. drop - correct decision - but certainly an experienced mechanic might argue (and I've heard them do it) that it would "probably" sort itself out in the air - and it probably would have. A company that had a really bad attitude would have said "you've got a mag and a half - get out there and complete the job". Don't tell me those companies don't exist.
I believe the posters experiences are typical RAM - and many pilots have survived the experience (and been better pilots for doing so) and many will survive in the future - including the poster.