First of all, we don't know it was a weight problem. He said he was heavy, but maybe he was having an engine output problem, and misinterpreted the lack of performance. We just don't know.
Second, there are no errors that you are immune from. None. Zero. The faster you realize that, the faster you will become a safer pilot with better CRM.
I think the reason that you get such strong reactions from some of us is that you come across as if you are somehow immune to stupidity. In my experience, people who think they are above any type of error are the ones you have to watch out for.
Maybe we are all reading you incorrectly. This is a web board, after all. But you come across negatively on these threads about aircraft accidents.
I'm so pleased you are concerned with helping me mature as a pilot.
I'm not sure what happened on the way to the store. At some point, pilots became politically correct • afraid to trust their experience and make informed opinions on known, yet limited evidence, for fear of being wrong. I've been on military accident boards, this chat board is not an accident board, we can have opinions. When presented with additional evidence, we are free to modify our opinions and theories.
It is interesting that I've been categorized as arrogant. I'll tell you what arrogance is, thinking pilots are special, deserving of special consideration and judged using a standard divorced from that of the rest of so society.
If a driver fails to look both ways before pulling out into traffic and kills half a dozen people, it is socially acceptable to publicly condemn such reckless behavior. Do we examine the factors that contributed to the reckless behavior or do we focus unapologetically on the known facts? However, when it comes to the reckless behavior of pilots, that's different. We are touched by the hands of God and what we do is so special it should make us immune to criticism because what we do is so complicated. We must consider EVERYTHING and we must refrain from voicing opinions until we know EVERYTHING.
Low-time pilot, Cessna 172, four adults, hot and humid day, radio report suggesting overweight condition, four dead. If an experienced pilot can't form and voice a preliminary opinion based on this, I guess we can talk about flight bags, and sunglasses, and iPad apps. Most of us have a pretty good idea of what happened in this case. We could be wrong, but we've seen this scenario play out so many times should we remain silent?
I've also observed this "equality of errors" philosophy that cripples intelligent discourse. Here's what I've seen on this site. First, because we are all capable of errors, we shouldn't identify, discuss, or criticize the mistakes of others. Second, all mistakes are equal, with none deserving no more scorn than others. Nowhere else in our lives is this the standard. In my mind, ignoring weight and balance is homicidal behavior while stalling and and crashing is most often poor piloting.
Guess what, I've been guilty of poor piloting but I don't ignore weight and balance considerations. I am very confident in saying that I will never ignore weight and balance - it's fundamental. I put it in the same category and not looking both ways before pulling out into traffic.
No, I'm not immune from making many mistakes, but I'm immune from making some mistakes. I'm not going to drink and fly. If you can't tell me this is a mistake you are immune from, you don't belong in the sky. There are a category of mistakes that we all have to agree are fundamental, errors of judgement so great that we have to be confident that we are immune from. I won't drink and fly. I won't takeoff without clearance. Draw the line where you like. I make mistakes. I learn from those mistakes and the mistakes of others.
Have the balls to call a spade a spade. Take some responsibility.