my way of looking at that situation is just that i better make sure i stand out plenty enough to never end up in that middle 80.
right now i get some dirty looks around the airport at school, lip ring, ears at 2g (will take them out with plenty of time to heal up before job hunting), tattoo pretty big on one of my calves, various 'fashionable' hairstyles (arguable! haha), but in my opinion, • the squares who think that has any impact on the quality of my flying.
i bust my ass studying for lessons, have a blast flying, then go home and have a blast with my personal life as well.
im not giving up one for the other, but I have no problem putting on the right mask when the time calls for it.
on another note, times ARE slowly but surely changing. im not saying the general public would be okay with their airline type pilot having a face full of metal, but tattoos here and there are more and more accepted, barring the complete sleeves / face / etc etc.
and a personal note, i dont really see myself even WANTING the type of job where i come to work lockstep everyday and monkey around for the 'man'. just not my type of gig. theres plenty of other flying jobs out there besides the airlines. ill be taking a good look at ALL my options and the benefits, restrictions, and lifestyle changes they would each offer.