Murdoughnut
Well sized member
I started watching the sex offender list after I had kids. Public urination is frequently brought up as a reason to be against the list, but I've yet to see anyone in my area for something so petty. The people I've seen on there are actual sex offenders, not someone who peed in an alley.
As a parent, I don't look at the list because I think it creates a false sense of security. For every person on the list, there are a hundred more who have likely committed sex crimes against children. If this surprises you, it's probably because our society dramatically underestimates how many children are victimized by family members. Just as you always treat a gun like it's loaded, you should always treat an adult male as a potential perp. I say adult male because I have a healthy understanding of statistics, and statistics cares not for our petty notions of egalitarianism.
That's not to say I assume every male is going to assault my kids - but we try never to allow the circumstances where that would occur, at least to the best of our ability. I certainly don't want to blame the victims here, but when you hear these stories of Nassar's victims and parents dropping their daughters off at his apartment - I mean, seriously, WTF. Beyond that, we have regular conversations with our sons about what they should do should anyone touch them inappropriately in order to create an openness and let them know it's important to speak up. We also emphasize in our home that we never have "secrets" as that's what many perps use as their method of concealing their crimes. Also, never put your kids in karate, apparently.